Meet someone by getting them wrong
One profile at a time. You guess how they answered three questions. What you miss stays hidden until you match, and that's usually where the conversation starts.
If you would rather swipe through forty people in a minute, this is not it.
Try it
You see their photos, age, city, and three questions they've answered. You don't see their name or their answers. You pick an impression instead of a like, then you guess.
Guess right and the answer opens. Guess wrong and it stays hidden until you match. Then you have something to talk about.
Your answers work the same way: nobody is told which one is yours unless they guess right or you match.
First impression
You two already have something to talk about
...and usually it's the thing you got wrong.
You already do this. You see someone on the same tram every morning and give them a name, a music taste, a favorite book. oko just lets you find out whether you were right.
What do you listen to on the way home?
Silence.
What are you proud of?
i fixed the washing machine myself, took two evenings and a video from 2011
What's the first thing you notice about someone?
Their energy.
What scares you most?
someone video calling me with no warning
What did you believe as a kid that turned out to be wrong?
That my school was a long walk. It's four minutes.
What could you talk about for an hour?
why old doors are narrower. i looked it up, the reason is boring
What annoys you more than it should?
when i've finished a sentence and they're already answering the first half
What's a good evening?
One where the plan falls through.
What do you want people to ask you about?
Something that makes me feel truly understood.
What's the last thing you cried at?
a nature documentary. the penguin was fine in the end which somehow made it worse
What do you always say you'll do and never do?
Text back the same day
Where do you go when you want to be alone?
the last carriage, it's emptier and nobody stands over you
What's a hill you'll die on?
the middle seat gets both armrests. i will not be taking questions
What's overrated?
Spontaneity.
What's your most useless skill?
i can name every stop between my place and the library, there are nine
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